Do you think playing hard is for amateurs? Are you too mature, sophisticated or just smart to play such a childish game? And how has your direct approach worked for you so far? If the open and honest way you present yourself to men hasn’t worked out the way you hoped, maybe it’s time you made a point of playing hard to get a chance. You might have a lot of fun while you’re at it.
While some women may find it difficult to become childish, others find it downright devious. But the truth is, playing tough is an important part of courtship.
From his perspective, playing hard to get it shows him that you are not easy to fool and that you just give in to any guy who walks up and says hello to you. In some cases, being too easy can even show a certain degree of desperation, and you would never want to do that.
And what can playing hard to get it do for you? Well, this is a great way to take the chills out of the men you really want to consider for a future husband. Basically, what you’re doing by being a bit elusive is forcing him to prove that he really does deserve your attention. He has to work to prove to you that he is better than other men around you.
Playing hard to get doesn’t have to be a torturous endeavor. You just want to avoid being completely available to him and you want to make sure he knows that he hasn’t completely won you over…yet.
Let him know you’re interested and tell him you have fun together, but then turn around and attend to whatever’s going on in your life and let him spend a week or so thinking about you.
It really is more than just a game. It’s a viable way of giving you a chance to find out as much as you can about this guy before letting him know that he really has your heart. So play hard for a chance and see how different the outcome can be.