Are you good in bed? Are your female lovers satisfied with your sexual skill set? Does your girl roll out of your bed with a BIG smile… eager to tell her friends how amazing you were between the sheets? Or does she leave frustrated, disappointed, and doubting your sexual ability?
Do not worry? You should be… since statistically speaking, over 50% of women privately admit that they would rather shop for SHOES with their friends, rather than have sex with their current partner. Pretty scary, don’t you think? I do…and if you’ve had any of the conversations I’ve had with friends, about THEIR boyfriends, husbands, and lovers, I think you’d probably agree.
The ONLY thing worse than being a woman trapped in an unsatisfying sexual relationship is being the man they complain about for not being able to do the job where it counts.
But isn’t it difficult to sexually stimulate a woman? Aren’t women very hard to “please” when it comes to sex?
Absolutely not! The truth? Most women are much easier to please than many men realize…and if they would only learn the simple and straightforward strategies that most women appreciate, making her happy in the sack would be a super simple proposition with no compromises! doubt!
Did you know that only 1 in 10 women orgasm during sex with a man every time, for example? Compare and contrast that with the 90% of women who claim to orgasm EVERY time they are alone using only manual stimulation techniques. What does this tell you? Foreplay, for most women, is the MOST important part of the orgasmic puzzle, and if you learn to emulate the kind of arousal she has when she’s alone, you’ll find it very easy to satisfy her in the sack when you’re together too.
Understand this ONE simple fact, and you should be as good as gold…
The vast majority of women have very simple sexual needs. She wants an equal measure of fabulous foreplay, combined with incredible intercourse. Each has their own place in sexual stimulation, and the truth about which does which may surprise you:
Foreplay is fantastic for preparing her for orgasm…and if you keep it up long enough, it’s often ALL she needs to climax really fast too. (about 7-10 minutes is usually more than enough if you know what you’re doing, which I’m SURE most of you do… 🙂
Intercourse is actually often more of an EMOTIONAL gratification than a physical satisfaction: don’t you think? It is really true! Very few women are able to climax through intercourse alone…and if you’re not sexually stimulating her with foreplay (or if you have unusually great masculinity!), most men simply can’t make their woman to orgasm only with heterosexual sex. .
Interestingly…many women find actual “sex” more emotionally rewarding simply because of the closeness, and “companionship” is an arousing way to make her feel closer to you, rather than for the sheer physical pleasure of it.
Your best bet?
If you really want him to roll out of your bed with a big SMILE on your face, master the art and science of phenomenal foreplay…and then combine it with giving him the best “sex” he’s ever seen. Learning to last longer (improving your stamina), practicing new and innovative positions, as well as increasing and improving your anatomy (and your mutual anatomical compatibility) is one of the BEST ways to make her wild with desire and ecstatic with anticipation every time. she sees your face or hears your voice. (And that’s the kind of thing you WANT her to talk about with her friends for sure!)