Some couples are a bit shy when it comes to talking dirty during sex. If you want to spice up your sex life, talking dirty is a great way to do it! Many couples use dirty talk as a form of foreplay and why not try it out during sex?
Dirty talk can be as clean as sweet whispering or as naughty as possible. The first and foremost thing you need to do is decide how clean or dirty the conversation is going to be. Establishing your guidelines beforehand may not seem very romantic, but it’s certainly better than getting slapped in the face if you cross a line you didn’t know existed, especially if the relationship is still new. Calling your lover a less desirable name for a prostitute could end the relationship very quickly!
Ladies, the same is true for men, not all men like their “team” to refer to a piece of meat that they would pick up at a grocery store and take home and fry for dinner. Some men are sensitive and also have feelings and you should come up with a name for your “team” that is acceptable to both of you. One last piece of advice leaves the “come with mom” out of bed! That’s wrong unless, of course, you’ve previously accepted that comment.
I think we’ve covered the pros and cons of talking dirty during sex. Now let the words flow naturally and if you don’t feel comfortable saying something then don’t say it. Forcing yourself to say something you’re not comfortable with will only make you tense and ruin the whole experience for both of you.
Certain things just take time to get comfortable and if talking dirty during sex is one of them, then go at your own pace.
So relax and when you are ready let the words flow freely and you are sure to have a wonderful experience. With any luck, your newfound desire to talk dirty during sex will lead to fantasies and other sexual experiences that are sure to spice up his sex life.