You may have heard several times before that women love a man.
man who has a bit of mystery about him. well everyone
I know this is true, but how exactly do you “create” this?
mystery when you are with a woman you want to seduce? First
you have to realize how female psychology works on a basic level
level.
You see, women are ALWAYS attracted to a man who doesn’t
they know a lot, but whom they can gradually “discover”,
slowly. Think of it in terms of unwrapping a
Christmas present: you are excited to receive it but you don’t
you know what it is until you start to unwrap it, and like every
the layer comes off, the expectation increases until it reaches
see what is the present at the end.
The reason most men find it hard to be mysterious
it’s because they approach women “unwrapped” at all.
It is as if they presented themselves “naked” and shouted: “Here I
I am, there is no need to uncover me at all.” And once a guy puts
himself in this position, he could also rule out any
luck of seduction You have to come in a colorful,
interesting wrapper and I’m about to show you how to do it.
Right, let’s say you meet a girl you find attractive.
and start chatting with her. as long as you have something
some sort of relationship or connection with her, it won’t be long
before I start asking you questions about you like,
“What do you do for a living?” Or where’re you from?”
Now whenever a girl asks you personal questions, THAT IS
YOUR CHANCE to demonstrate some mystery and show him that
there is a “wrapper” that has to be removed before arriving
to see the “real” you. So what I usually do at this point is
this: First, I never answer the question directly, I find a
way to make a joke about the question or give a ridiculous
answer. Now, it is very important here to be PLAYFUL with
her by doing this or else you will come across as arrogant
immature gold.
So, for example, a woman might ask me shortly after we met,
“What do you do for a living?” I’ll reply “Oh, I clean
the dust from people’s shoes at the bus stop when they go to
work in the morning.” And if he laughs at that, I’ll tell him
with a serious face, (but still in a fun and playful
way) “What are you laughing at? I take my job very
really. What are you doing, Miss Smart Pants?” You see, she
You know I’m kidding but by doing this I’m communicating two
very important things that accumulate a lot of mystery in it
mind. I’m FORCING it to try to “unwrap” my complex layers.
This really creates a massive attraction in your subconscious.
mind. This is interesting, I’m not even going to tell him
something as simple as my work and that begins to build the
anticipation in your mind about who I am.
Now, you’ll notice that I’m “teasing” her at the same time.
time, (women love to be teased), I’m showing you that I’ve
He has a great sense of humor as well as mystery. in second place
I am communicating to your subconscious mind that I am not
trying to impress her with my work, (starts to see me as
a confident man who doesn’t need to brag about his work or how
how much money does he make). Instead, I’m throwing you an invitation.
for SHE to start impressing me (women are deeply attracted to
to men who are demanding with women, and that’s what I’m doing
here, while playing with her).
I hope you can see why I want him to “take the bait” and
start trying to impress me. By not telling a girl what she
I may really want to hear from you, you’re prolonging
the mystery factor, and the more you prolong it,
she will be more attracted to you. And remember, you can
do this with almost any personal question he asks you, no
just your work Of course, as you get to know her a little more
you can start to let him know a little more about you. Goal
make him WIN WIN it every time he tells you more about
HERSELF. So you get to “unwrap” yourself just a little
little at a time.