Are you stuck in a marriage where you helplessly say that my wife always criticizes me? It’s troublesome, to be honest, downright annoying.
But the truth is that you created the environment for this to happen, and now you have to create the environment where it WILL NOT HAPPEN. But you have to get it right or things can get worse… and fast!
What to do when you’re in a marriage where you say my wife constantly criticizes me
There are really only a few good reasons why you would be saying that my wife constantly criticizes me. The great part is that almost all of them lead to a major problem, which means there really is a major solution. Getting this solution right can be the sticking point.
So what are some of the reasons your wife constantly criticizes you? Let’s review them now…
Reasons why your wife criticizes you…
Resentment – Criticism is often born out of resentment. It’s basically a passive-aggressive way of telling you he’s sorry. Just think about when you feel for someone, how every little thing can annoy you about that person.
And when resentment rears its ugly head, the chosen weapon is often critical.
Disrespect – Now this one can be a bit tricky and here’s why. His wife may not respect him for different reasons. But it is very likely that the reasons he has presented are not really the real reasons.
Most of the time, when a woman doesn’t respect you, she’ll try to tell you that it’s because you’re not doing enough like buying flowers and being sweet and lovable. But usually she doesn’t even realize that this is nonsense, and basically the opposite of the real reason.
The real reason a woman often loses respect for her husband (unless there is no abuse in the relationship) is that you have lost your MAN status in the home. In other words, you are no longer the captain of the ship that she NEEDS to have that respect for you.
Your wife, by the very nature of her DNA… which goes back to her ancestors in the caves, MUST make you the alpha male in the household, or she can’t respect you and therefore…
She is not attracted to you Simply put, it all comes down to attraction. It may sound hard to believe, especially when the problem started as “my wife constantly criticizes me”, which would ultimately come down to attraction, but it is.
If your wife resents you, it is because you have lost your manhood. You are no longer the alpha male that she needs in her life. If your wife does not respect you, it is for the same reason. How can she have respect for you if you don’t evoke the very qualities she needs in a man? If you’re not being the man that she needs, then she basically has every natural right not to respect you anymore.
If she resents you and doesn’t respect you, then she won’t be attracted to you. And it is that a wife who is attracted to you will move mountains to be with you. A wife who is ultimately attracted to you to the core, she will worship the ground you walk on. You’ve seen it with your own eyes, every time you’ve seen a woman who was with an idiot or an ugly guy.
The thing is, she respected and was completely attracted to this guy, because HE was a MAN who exuded ALPHA MALE status. Become that guy and you won’t be saying that my wife constantly criticizes me!