Has it been weeks since your relationship ended? Have you been thinking how to get your man back? Are you giving up hope that nothing can change your mind? It’s not too late. There might still be a chance that he will change his decision. It just takes a few simple, careful steps, a few do’s and don’ts, and a little effort on your part. How to Get Your Man Back First will take you to the few don’ts.
Don’t beg for his love.
The more you show him how dependent you are on him, the more he’ll think you’re not worthy of a healthy relationship. Men want someone who can handle himself well. You should never beg for another chance or say something like, “I can’t live without you, please stay.” Of course, you wouldn’t want someone like that too. If you want to fix things the right way, wait for the right time. Everything will fall into place when patience has been used.
Do not be overcome by your own despair.
Women are mostly fragile. Breakouts are your weakest point. They often end up doing things that only hurt them. Sometimes they threaten their boys that they will commit suicide once they are gone for good. But most of these threats are generated in part. They do things that hurt, not things that will kill them. So who loses? Nobody more than the ugly and pathetic image that reflects your inept mirror.
Don’t take your appearance for granted.
Men pay attention to appearance most of the time. If he was ever attracted to you through your appearance, then it will never be that hard to do so again. Your appearance could be the way to win your man back. Instead of crying 12 hours a day, eating potato chips under the bed, and hopelessly watching romantic movies, why not visit a salon and get a makeover? You deserve it.
Don’t make him jealous.
If you think that making him jealous of your new guy will be a way to get your man back, you are wrong. It backfires most of the time. Instead of winning him back, it will lower his respect for you. It’s only been a couple of weeks and there you are with a new man? Isn’t he too self-critical? If it turns out to be a trap, it will be more insufferable if he quickly gets over you for it.
Don’t run to your family or friends.
You should know how to get your man back not by asking his family or friends for help to convince him to change his mind, but by taking the proper steps. He may talk you into telling them the story of the breakup, but be aware that he might be trespassing on his private life. He might think that you are not trustworthy enough because you told them things that should have been private.