Even today, many women still think that it is the man’s role to take the lead. Few women are confident and liberated enough to make the first move. Many will still wait for the guy to come to them first and if he doesn’t, so be it. If you think it’s unfair, you may be right. But it is reality and there is no changing reality. What you can change, however, is your attitude toward women.
Without further ado, here is a step-by-step guide on how to approach a woman successfully.
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The best way to learn how to approach a woman successfully is to just do it. Have you seen a girl that you are instantly attracted to and would like to know more? So don’t waste your time! Just do it! Get close to her and meet her!
Get ready for a great front line.
Of course, you can’t do anything without a good plan. So as you take baby steps toward your female goal, you should already be racking your brains to find a great frontline or opening. Consider where you are, what you’re doing, and what she’s doing.
Let’s say you’re at the bookstore. Are you looking at a book? You like books? If you don’t, then don’t pretend you do. But you can capitalize on your disinterest in books. When you talk to her, tell her that you’re looking for a book to read and seeing how enlarged she is, you want to know if it’s as good as it looks.
Watch? That’s not too difficult, is it? The truth is that learning how to approach a woman is easier than most men think. They just don’t have the guts to apply what they’ve learned.
Let them know that you are fun to talk to.
This is one of the most challenging parts of learning how to approach a woman. But don’t worry because it’s only hard for the first few tries. Now that he has started a conversation with her, she may or may not appreciate her efforts. No matter how she reacts, you must continue and work hard to get a reaction from her.
Be funny! Be charming! All men can be funny and charming…as long as they don’t let their nervousness get the better of them. Just imagine that you are talking to your best friend. Go ahead and try it.
Pay attention to what she is and isn’t saying.
If he eventually falls in love with you, great! She stops babbling and listens carefully to what she has to say. You want her to know that you respect her thoughts and that you really want to know what she thinks. If he still isn’t talking much, pay attention to nonverbal gestures or body movement. Does he seem to find you boring? Are you still cautious?
One of the keys to successfully learning how to approach a woman is to change tactics when necessary. Dont be rude. Don’t be arrogant. If your initial attempt hasn’t worked, go ahead and switch to another topic and another and another until you finally do.
When it comes to learning how to approach a woman, the only time you’ll fail is when you stop trying.