Having trouble figuring out how not to ejaculate fast? Are you one of those guys who gets things done at lightning speeds? Even when it comes to having sex? There is nothing to be ashamed of, premature ejaculation is quite common. But it makes you feel helpless knowing that you can’t satisfy your lover. If you want to make it up to her and be the best lover you can be, start by reading every word of this article as it will give you some solid quick fixes on how not to ejaculate fast.
Ejaculating too quickly is something most men are embarrassed to even talk about. That is why the only consolation they have to find the solution to their problem is the Internet. Men who have this problem are constantly looking for the answer. So, to help you figure out how not to ejaculate fast, here are some tips that will help you hold back your ejaculation:
Have you ever noticed that the faster you breathe during sex, the faster you become sexually aroused? Rapid breathing will instantly arouse him sexually, leading him to ejaculate quickly. Try to have slower, more controlled breathing during sexual intercourse. It will help calm your mind and a calm mind will help delay ejaculation.
During intercourse, when you are about to feel the intense urge to ejaculate, try to stop slowly and change to another sexual position. This will give you time to calm down and perhaps make it more exciting for her, especially if you switch to her favorite sexual position.
Extending foreplay just over her is also a great way to prevent rapid ejaculation. Because? This simply because when you concentrate on stimulating her, doing what she likes with your mouth, fingers and tongue, her sexual drive will increase and make it more pleasurable for her. And when that happens, she’s more likely to orgasm before you when she finally begins penetration. Not only that, if you manage to make foreplay enjoyable for her, you will become the best lover she ever had, and she might as well forget all the disappointing time of the sexual event she has to endure.
my shameful story
Ultimately, it was the “stop and start” method that pushed my fiancĂ©e over the edge. With so many stops and so few starts, not to mention all my various instructions: “Slow down, easy, easy, okay, go ahead, stop, I said stop!” –She finally blurted out, “For God’s sake, are we going to have sex or park a car?”
As she jumped out of bed and searched for her clothes, I begged, “Wait… You can’t just get up and go…”
“Why not? That’s what you do every time we have sex..”