Hey man.
In the past, I used to have hundreds of girlfriends giving me head, and I still do. I realized that some of my friends had much worse sex lives than me, and when I asked them, “So does she suck you?” the answer was often, “Nope … she said she doesn’t like to give blowjobs.” I knew it was not true. I never had a problem getting my girlfriend to give me oral sex, or even just an affair, for whatever reason women were drawn to get on their knees for me. They loved coming down on me. They did it with passion, with pure love and joy. Some women turned their heads to me and they had that scared, almost terrified look on their face: they were afraid that they would spoil everything and that I would end up leaving them, which I sometimes did. I didn’t have much patience.
Anyway, after a while I realized that I know something that other men don’t. I know WHY women give their heads and what makes them kneel without having to ASK THEM, much less COME UP and look like idiots. The fact is … if you have to ASK for oral sex, you are DEFINITELY on the wrong track to convince this girl to abuse you. If you’re having trouble convincing your current girlfriend to give you head, here are 3 things to do, in the following order. This may sound crazy to you, but hey, whatever works!
1. Discover it
The first thing you should do if you want your girlfriend to give you head is UNDERSTAND HER. First, do you understand WHY she’s not giving you oral sex RIGHT NOW? Is it because your penis is FULL of hair, you never shave it, and it smells bad? If not, maybe it’s because the last time she gave you her head, you shoved it down your throat like a lunatic and made her vomit like crazy? Or, does she not see why she would give you head if you never cheated on HER? Maybe you are behaving like THE WOMAN in your relationship, instead of being THE MAN, so SHE is giving you orders, telling you what to do, how to do it, why to do it, while you follow her for a bit. homeless dog? Or maybe all of this is not the case. Whatever it is, find out. You will never get your girlfriend to ENJOY giving you her head if she does not RESPECT you as a person and if she does not see you as someone valuable to her.
2. Be UP
Oral sex is about submission. She submits to You. She comes down, orally pleases you, and takes your cum with pride (or not, yet). Whatever it is, she is in a position where she submits to you, right now, you are her God. She needs to FEEL comfortable in this position and she needs to be okay submitting to you sexually. Letting go and letting you “carry” her to bed. The only way this can happen is if you are psychologically ABOVE her in your relationship. Basically, if you are “the boss” of your relationship, she will be comfortable submitting to you and giving you head. How do you do that? Make him respect you. And learn to say “no.” You have to be prepared to lose it. Basically, she needs to love you more than you love her. If you love her more than she loves you, she will have the power in the relationship. The emotional power over you.
3. Find out
The third thing you need to do to get her to give you head more often is to find out WHO you are and what you WANT in life. When you are lost in space, you have no power, therefore you will not be attractive to her. Do what you can to feel more confident about yourself. For some, that is having more money, freedom, a higher social status … but all of that is not as important as your ATTITUDE and your way of thinking. If you stop caring about what other people think of you, you will become more attractive and appear more carefree. When you are carefree, communicate POWER and CONFIDENCE. This also makes you more attractive and desirable to other women. As soon as your girlfriend feels this energy in you, she will AUTOMATICALLY GO IN to give you head like never before!