I get a lot of emails from women who want to give their partner a child. And many of these moms-to-be want advice on which sexual positions best accomplish this. I am often asked what is the best position to conceive a child, but the truth is that there is no one answer that works for everyone. You have to consider the height, weight and build of both you and your partner, but there are several positions from which to think. I will discuss this more in the next article.
The dynamic that makes this important in the first place:Many people know that sexual positions play a role in the gender or sex of your baby, but not many know why. Sperm chromosomes have different attributes that allow you to manipulate which (X or Y) gets the egg first. Y sperm produces baby boys and is unfortunately weaker than X sperm which produces girls.
At first glance, this may seem like a downside, but the good news is that there are fairly easy and inexpensive things you can do to counteract what Mother Nature intended. Your goal is to set it up to give Y’s the best chance, while countering the strength of X’s. One way to do this is to make Y’s travel less difficult, both in terms of distance and time. That’s where sex positions come into play. Some give a shorter ride and some give a longer ride. If you wanted a girl, you would want shorter trips, but that’s not your scenario. In fact, you want the fastest and least difficult excursion you can take.
Sex positions that are best for a son: So let’s get to it then. For the conception of a child, a short and easy journey is needed. It’s the deep penetration that this is going to provide. So what sex positions fit into this scenario? There are several, but which one works best for you and your partner will depend on the factors I mentioned above. However, the most common positions that work for this are rear penetration (man on the back), curling up and placing a pillow under your hips, and perching on the edge of the bed (or other piece of furniture). Many people think that the missionary position allows for superficial penetration and this is true when used in the traditional way. However, if he wraps his legs around his partner’s shoulders or neck, this position can achieve some pretty deep penetration. Better experiment with jobs before attempting to design.
It is advisable that you do whatever it takes to achieve an orgasm because these fluids make your vagina more alkaline (I’ll explain why this is so important below).
Are sexual positions alone enough to get a child or a boy?: I don’t think it is, although it’s a great start. The truth is that the exclusive use of the sexual position does nothing to decrease the number of X sperm. It has only given the Y sperm an easier time. You also need to get rid of as many X’s as you can, as these little girls are stronger. How do you do this? There are two ways.
First, you will want to have time on your side. You want to wait until after you ovulate. He can’t move too soon because he wants to give the girl’s sperm time to die (which takes a long time). Get a very good ovulation predictor and wait until you get a positive result (not a faint line or questionable screen if you are using a saliva predictor.) Wait until there is no doubt that you are getting a positive reading.
Another thing you want to do is make the vaginal tract friendly to the Y’s or the sperm-producing boy. An acid PH is an enemy for these little ones. Use a PH meter to see if it is acidic or alkaline (it usually comes with a chart indicating this). If your PH is too high, you can lower it by eating low PH or alkaline foods or by douching. . (Orgasms help with this, too, as mentioned above.)