My Uncle Chester has always had a new car every three years. He prides himself on getting that car at the best possible price. Unfortunately, most of his buying sessions have been cut down if the flames make him feel like he was taken. It’s not a good feeling. It seems that because dealers pride themselves on employing sales people who only see the money and not the buyer.
Last January I received a phone call from Uncle Chester with a different ringtone than his recent car purchase. My Aunt Candy had been surfing the internet and came across a site about car dealers and the covert things they did to “brands” or buyers. She was in awe of the different ways to finance a car where the dealership almost literally doubled her money on the buyers. She then found a site that explained in plain English what to look for and how to buy a car at the best price.
Armed with all the knowledge he could remember, Uncle Chester headed to the car dealership to buy his new car. He was surprised that when he wanted to ask questions he was blocked or diverted and he did not get the answers he wanted. So, for the first time in his life, he got up, walked out of the dealership, and went home without buying a car.
Uncle Chester’s neighbor, Larry, found out about all the trouble. He listened intently as Uncle Chester blurted it all out. Man, what a patient guy! So Larry backed off and told Uncle Chester that he needed to learn conversational hypnosis. Than? Yes, he needed to learn how to speak to people more powerfully using covert hypnosis techniques, project his desires, and get his way with car salesmen. [I wonder if it will work on my Aunt?]
The conversational hypnosis worked better than Uncle Chester expected. The same car salesman he’s dealt with for over fifteen years has collapsed in front of Uncle Chester. Uncle Chester not only got a discount of over four thousand dollars, but he got a fantastic extended warranty for no extra money and ten free oil changes, including free tire rotation.
Since then I have also taken the plunge and am now learning conversational hypnosis. I figure I better be ready for Uncle Chester this July 4th at his house when he tries his hypnotic suggestions on me. But really, I’ve suddenly been able to work better with my friends and coworkers. It’s not about always getting my way, it’s about making people treat you the way you should be treated. I wish I had learned this ten years ago!
Here’s something simple for you to try yourself. His voice can be used very differently than he used it before. A simple test you can do is to give simple commands to your friends and family. Decide something simple that you want someone to do for you and what are the words needed for a command. There are now three parts to giving a command, such as timing, change in tone of voice, and body language.
Suppose you want your friend to start doing things for you. Set the stage first by asking a friend to do something simple for you. The simple and easy things you can ask a friend will usually do without complaint. When it comes to requests for more debt, your friend may resist or say no and don’t do it. You want to borrow Shirley’s red hot dress. He probably wouldn’t lend it to you if you only asked. You need to prepare Shirley so that she will respond favorably to you. That dress is fantastic and you want to wear it!
People can be conditioned and that’s what you’re going to do. Think of two simple things that Shirley can do for you that she probably won’t mind doing. Then, after Shirley does those two things, you have to order her to lend you that red dress.
“Hey, I know you can see me with Ted a little bit and he wants me. I know you think we’d make a great couple. That…red dress…of yours that…you lent me tonight.” .. would .. make your thoughts come true .. can you .. see me in it .. ?
You gave Shirley the subconscious command to: ‘red dress’ ‘let me borrow tonight’ ‘make your thoughts come true’ ‘watch me with it’
Well, you get the idea. This is so powerful and it really works.